avoiding the domination and control and mocking

Work Educational built on dialogue and persuasion and all means of effective and acceptable communication is certain that any educational process does not take the principle of reward and punishment in the rationalization of behavior balanced and rational that results in deviations in the behavior of the child when he grows up, it must punish bad behavior punishment is not the cruelty of it and non-violence, and reward proper behavior, and that of the door promote this behavior, noting the lack of equivalent behavior parole from the child, such as: «I will work duties if approved we are out for a stroll what» Thus summarized researcher Iman winning master in educational Studies agent «mental health» a large part of the golden advice Educational work. The work Educational built on dialogue and persuasion, are all means of effective and acceptable contact with the child, with intervention in the recipe «which is better», be sure to calm during the discussion and open the field of dialogue with them and exaggerated interest in him, and give them space to express their opinions and the right choice with your respect and encouragement opinion before and promote positive of it and modify the negative direct and indirect reference while avoiding the domination and control and mocking, Dealing always be by persuasion and not so. Education system and discipline: if forbidden for something shall take hold of him, do not give up your child for a wish when crying, distinguishes child and watching your reaction and the movements of your eyes, and realize your weakness before the crying and lack of patience on his screams, uses that pressure to meet their desires, and be sure to alert all your orders as to ensure the safety to give him a sense of security and safety, and not end for something unless necessary and explain to him the reason for forbidding, nor Tnha about something you're doing, Vatharh contradictions in a child's life have a negative impact on his personality, if Nhinah about something that we should be the first Alambtaadin him. Education Way Policy: If children refuse what they learn from the orders and Noah Stay away from the tone of exile and it «does not paint on the wall», «wore the veil», while they accept if it came offer them «How beautiful to paint in a book drawing», or praise for the Hajj «beautiful Bhjabk my intention», Vtnmy in the same child daring literary presentation to his wishes, Valomra and Prevention If imposed on them be devastating to the child, where force him to lie and claim, and make defended the behavior has a fear of punishment or the hope of reward only. Finally, the education agreement and the balance and stability, parents are the partner of the educational process, Vagahma the method of education and methods of guidance is one of the most important rules in the style of education, the difference in parents and Tnaqdahm lead to profound negative effects, causing suffering and problems and a contract psyche of the child, if the mother allows things not permitted the father, or the father tends to be soft and pampering, while the mother tends to severity in punishment or admonition, this difference and the imbalance between the parents in the methodology of education or guidance roads cause confusion for the child, and makes it unable to distinguish right from wrong, and affects the psychological and behavioral health , as this method leads to the weakness of loyalty to one of the parents, because the child, by nature, tends to pampering and soft, and here draw attention to the base of not less important than the above, and closely related to a child separated from family problems, stability of the father relationship and the mother is the basis of education, this is reflected positively on his behavior understanding of his role model and a source of safety, but if the relationship is stable Vnevsah child not bear to see one of his parents in a bad light, Vsdmth Bouklavathma them and lose a sense of security. And the responsibility of raising the children of the parents first and foremost, he says: «Ausikm God in your children» «Women: 11», Imam Ibn Qayyim God's mercy says: «if it considers corruption in the boys saw Aamth by parents».

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